Comments on Facebook from the Fussbudgets post:
Don’t worry we won’t give a sh’t about you and your health anymore. Ronnie, Emily and I are the only 3 people who cared for you when you were almost dead. We are also the only 3 people you bit*h about. Please stfu about the cookies and stop telling your friends bs about your family trying to control you. If you think us saying no to SIX boxes of cookies in which you consume a box in a couple hours is controlling then you need to think harder. You’re acting like a child and we’ve all stepped back. So now when your friends come to visit they can fill you with sugar. Who the f is hungry and eats boxes of cookies?? A child does.
I hope Marcus says no to me if I ask for that amount of sugar as a senior. So yes I will wait for that and he will take great care of me cause I won’t be an ungrateful POS!
Karma is a bit*h and I can’t wait for you to cross over and get slapped by my grandparents for how you’re treating Emily and I
What you call “fussbudgets” and interfereing is Love, caring, and concern. If it wasnt for the “interference” of your family, particularly your daughters, you’d be dead now!! Let that sink in!! You weren’t managing your life or your health well at all. That’s why you are where you are now. We have done nothing but love you and care about you and tried to advise you from making bad choices in your life. You didn’t want our help or listen to us and almost killed yourself. Your choice to fast for 24 days, not see a doctor, and other lifestyle choices would have killed you if Emily and Parker hadn’t found you delirious, unconscious close to death and “interfered” to get you to the hospital. I can’t believe that you see our Love and concern as fussbudgets interfering in your life!! How ungrateful! You want to continue to make bad choices in your life and not consider any guidance or advise from anyone than that’s your choice. Emily and Didi have put their lives on hold for you. Like I said you’d be dead if it wasn’t for them. You are so ungrateful and entitled. All you do is complain to them and Ron about what you think everyone should be doing for you and how nothing is good enough. It’s not done the way you want it. So everyone is backing off helping you. Why bother when you call us fussbudgets. Your bad choices almost killed you. Your family intervened and got you the help you needed and now you want full control of your life and decisions again no interference from fussbudgets. Well let’s see how far that gets you. Your bad decision making and choices almost killed you. This post infuriates me Gary. How can you be so ungrateful and feel so entitled. You have pushed the people that love you away. Who wants to do anything for you when it is perceived like this.
Your lucky you have family and friends. Be grateful for that and say thank you with no “buts” or demands.
Recognize Love and caring concern. You are so fortunate to have these in your life. Be grateful.
I never named any of the fussbudgets in the previous blog. Two of them gave themselves away with the above comments. A friend observed that their comments supported my opinions about fussbudget control and bashing boundaries.
Someone suggested I delete the comments. No matter how embarrassing they are, I will not censor anyone from expressing feelings.
The fussbudgets have no respect for me, my feelings, and my needs. Only they know what is best for me. They give me unsolicited advice and lectures.
To switch on an old joke, a fussbudget is aghast seeing Niagara Falls for the first time. “Oh my God,” says the fussbudget, “someone has to fix this leak!”
Fussbudgets are always trying to fix things that are not broken; they are overbearing and often exaggerate stories.
I was never near death. I did not “almost die.” I was fainting because of a drop in blood pressure, but always regained consciousness after a spell. The fainting was happening way before my fast in September. The doctors still do not know why this is happening after all types of tests. (MRI, CT SCAN, X-RAYS, ULTRA SOUND, ABCDEFG, etc.) And I received some of these tests more than once. No doctor ever mentioned that I could have died if I wasn’t rescued.
Fussbudgets will love and support you if you do things their way. If you do not do things their way, then you are an ungrateful bastard. After all, fussbudgets are acting out of love . . .
Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast,
It is not proud.
It does not dishonour others,
It does not insist on its own way,
It is not self-seeking,
It is not easily angered,
and it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil
but rejoices with the truth.
Love bears all things,
believes all things,
hopes all things,
endures all things.
Love never ends.
1 Corinthians 13